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How to Introduce Yourself in European Portuguese: A Step-by-Step Guide

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PortuStories Editorial

The first ten seconds

Introductions in Portugal follow a script. Not a rigid one, but consistent enough that departing from it registers, and the parts that go wrong for foreigners are rarely the words.

Four stages: the greeting, your name, the physical bit, and the phrase that closes it off. The physical bit is the one people worry about, and with some justification.

1. Greet by the clock

English has "hello" for all occasions. Portuguese wants to know what time it is.

  • Bom dia, from waking until around one in the afternoon.
  • Boa tarde, from roughly one until dark. The switch is tied to lunch rather than to noon, which catches people out, and bom dia at quarter past one gets you a small correction.
  • Boa noite, after dark, and it works for both arriving and leaving. Also used walking into a dim restaurant at six in summer.

Olá exists and is fine with friends. With someone older, someone senior, or anyone in a professional setting, lead with the time-of-day greeting. It costs nothing and it is never wrong.

2. Chamo-me, not me chamo

Portuguese says your name with a reflexive verb, chamar-se, to call oneself. Where you put the pronoun announces which country's materials you studied with.

Portugal: Chamo-me [name].
Brazil: Me chamo [name].

The second one is not a small regional preference here. Opening a sentence with me reads as plainly ungrammatical in Lisbon. Learn chamo-me as a single unit, one sound rather than two words, and you will never have to think about it again.

3. The two kisses

Between women, and between a man and a woman in anything less than a boardroom, the greeting is dois beijinhos.

  • Direction. Start to your right, meaning their left cheek, then the other side. Going the wrong way first produces the collision everyone dreads.
  • Contact. Cheeks touch, lips do not. A small sound, nothing more. Actual kissing is for family.
  • Who moves first. On a first meeting, let them lead. If a hand comes out instead, shake it and think nothing of it.

Between men it is a handshake, firmly, every time. Old friends might add a half-hug and a slap on the back. Not on a first meeting.

4. Close it properly

Names exchanged, greeting done, and now you need a phrase to mark the end of the ritual so the actual conversation can start.

  • Muito prazer. Works everywhere, with everyone. If you remember one, remember this.
  • Encantado or Encantada. More traditional, slightly warmer. The ending agrees with you, not with the person you are meeting, which is the opposite of what most learners assume.
  • Igualmente. What you say when they got there first.

Titles, which are not optional

Portugal takes titles seriously in a way that surprises most people. Introduced to a Sr. Doutor or an Engenheiro, you use the title back.

Muito prazer, Sr. Doutor Silva.

Dropping it is not read as friendly informality. It is read as not having noticed, which in a professional setting is worse.