Small words, and a lot of them
English uses "the" sparingly and predictably: specific thing, use it; general idea, drop it. Portuguese uses o, a, os, as far more often, and in places where an English speaker would never think to.
Get one wrong and nobody misunderstands you. They just hear a small stumble in the rhythm, in a place a Portuguese speaker would never stumble. There are four situations worth learning properly, and one of them will change how you talk about people.
Articles in front of people's names
This is the one that startles everybody. In Portugal you do not say "João is here." You say O João está aqui. The article goes in front of the name.
It carries a small social charge: this person is known, part of the circle, someone we talk about. Leave it out and Maria foi ao mercado tilts towards the register of a news bulletin or a novel. Not wrong, but distant, and rarely what you meant.
Talking to the person flips it. Then the article disappears completely.
Bom dia, Maria. Right.
Bom dia, a Maria. Wrong, and oddly so to a Portuguese ear.
Possessives take one too
Before meu, teu, seu, nosso and the rest, Portugal wants the article as well. Both words, every time.
- Right: O meu carro é azul. Literally "the my car", which reads strangely until it stops doing so.
- Wrong here: Meu carro é azul.
Brazilian speakers drop it freely. In Portugal the sentence lands half-finished without it. Same for plurals and feminines: as minhas chaves, o nosso amigo.
You will occasionally see it dropped in poetry, in very formal writing, and sometimes with close family, as in minha mãe. In conversation, though, a minha mãe is what people say.